Be authentic; be real
Connect your heart with other people’s hearts. This is how people grow the best and that is a leader’s real work – to help people grow and develop.
Acknowledge and reward others; make them feel important
People will forget what you say, they may forget what you do, but people will never forget how you made them feel.
Have a positive spirit
which is much more than just a positive attitude. A positive attitude comes from the head; a positive spirit from the heart! Your mood will affect your team more than you can ever imagine.
Be a good-finder
Learn to actively look for the good in every situation and in every person – all the time.
Reframe situations so you and others can see the advantages of a difficult situation
just like changing the frame and mounting around a print or painting can transform the painting, we can change the context of a communication or situation, and its meaning is transformed – just like the painting.
Know yourself
find out your purpose in life. Do “work” rather than just have a “job”.
Connect heart to heart
the door to your heart can only be opened from the inside; you will really touch others when you are able to connect heart to heart.
Do the right thing
Character is doing the right thing always – even when nobody else is watching.
Be careful how you are programming yourself
be aware of what you are saying to yourself, as what you say is programming your mind. The subconscious mind is very literal and if you tell it something repeatedly, it becomes a self-fulfilling prophesy!
Use judgment, don’t make judgments
Imagine that everyone you meet is wearing a banner across their forehead that says “make me feel special”I
Unwind before you arrive home
You need to give your family as much energy and caring, if not more, than you give those at work.
Be aware of your non-verbal communication
Encourage others
Give them courage and make them feel good about themselves
Tell people they make a difference to your life!
Celebrate the successes and big efforts of others!
Have fun – be joyful at work and home.