Friday, July 11, 2008
People You Meet
One of my favorite things about LifeWay Women's Events is the amazing people I get to meet along the way. And I'm not just talking about the Deeper Still platform of Kay Arthur, Beth Moore, and Priscilla Shirer!
God keeps putting incredible people in my path as I travel to different cities for Deeper Still: The Event or other LifeWay Christian women's events.
I remember meeting an older woman several years ago in Kansas City. Her fiancée had died a few months before their wedding and she had never married. Instead she invested her life in children and served as a teacher for over 40 years. She said she could never love another man like she loved her fiancée, but she could love hundreds of children...and so she did.
On another trip, our plane (full of people) watched out our windows as a young soldier met and escorted the coffin of his fallen friend to another plane so the body could be returned home to the family. I couldn't help myself when I saw that young soldier standing alone...all alone...inside that terminal. The mama in me had to find out who he was and let him know how proud I was (we are) of his service to our country and to that family. I had to find out his name so I could pray for him. James was so sweet and brave and said, "This is the hardest thing I've ever done. Harder than leaving my home, living in another country, or going to war."
It is funny (not as in funny, ha ha, but funny as in the things the mind remembers)...I can still see their faces...I'm talking details of their faces...and I still see the tears in their eyes.
Well, Deeper Still in Atlanta was no different. I still see your faces and remember the stories some of you shared with me.
I loved meeting one woman on Friday night...it was her 40th birthday and she was so excited to be in Atlanta! When her family asked what she wanted to do for her 40th, she told them she wanted the family to join together in worshiping their KING! So, 14...yes 14 of the women in her family met in Atlanta for Deeper Still! Did I say she was from Puerto Rico?! No kidding...several of them had flown from Puerto Rico to Atlanta for Deeper Still! Her excitement was contagious and I know it was the best birthday ever!
Another group of eight women I actually first met through this...our Deeper Still blog. They connected with one another through the blogosphere and decided to meet, for the first time, face to face, in Atlanta for Deeper Still: The Event!
The common denominator, in addition to their love for Christ, they all lost babies in the last year, most of them actually lost a baby in the last three or four months. And most of them lost their babies to Trisomy 18. You have to get into genetics to even begin to understand all of this, but unlike Down syndrome with its varying degrees of severity, Trisomy 18 is usually fatal. They knew before their babies were born that they most likely would not have them in this life for long. Yet, they opened their hearts and loved them with everything they had for as long as they could physically.
All of these sweet mommies carried their babies and then returned them into God's hands within hours or days after birth. For one of these mommies, the weekend of Deeper Still was only four weeks after she had physically let go of her little one. For another it was exactly one year after the loss of her baby. I think the longest any of these mommies had her baby on this earth was 59 days. Tragic....
My heart was broken by their stories. I still can't begin to know the loss they feel. But I was also so encouraged by their dependence and passion for our great God. To watch them worship was amazing. And I can't begin to express the impression they made upon my life through a few blog comments and a short gathering at Deeper Still to talk and pray and hug.
One of these sweet moms commented that from the moment she connected with the others on the Internet she began to carry these mothers, their families and their precious babies in her heart and in her prayers.
And now, I also carry these eight mommies in my heart and in my prayers...and I will forever see their faces...and their tears....along with a retired teacher, a young soldier named James, a feisty forty-year-old Puerto Rican, and so many others I've met along the way.
What an honor to meet people like you....to see your faces...to see your tears. I hope you see mine too. I am forever grateful to God that our paths crossed on this journey as we go deeper still.
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Comments (9)
Christi said...
What an awesome testimony. Thanks for taking time out of your busy life to share these kinds of things with us. I am still amazed that the Lord allowed me to attend the Deeper Still Atlanta event... and with my mother and mother-in-love (along with another very close friend.) I am a pastor's wife, of a very small church where I am needed and an integral part of every Sunday service. This doesn't allow me to go to many women's events because most are through Sunday. It was a wonderful and encouraging time for me to be fed and to worship freely without having to feel "in charge." That's such a blessing...
The four of us felt a little overwhelmed in big ole Atlanta, as we hiked back and forth (uphill both ways!!) to the Philips Arena. My m-i-l came through breast cancer last year, went through radiation, chemo, hair loss, the whole 9 yards... and has since been declared cancer free. Now she is ministering to others who have breast cancer, like another young mother of 4 and pastor's wife in our area. Now yesterday, I found out my mom has a lump in her breast which they thought suspicous and are doing a biopsy of... we will get results back the first of next week. I am praying they will find nothing, but I think satan is working overtime on so many women these days with this disease. And I see their faces constantly before me, just as you shared.
All of this to say that we four women sure needed that weekend... it brought us together in a family/sisterhood sense and also made us realize what an awesome God we serve.
Thanks again for all you do!
Christi
Michelle Hicks
said...
Praying for you Christi and your mom and the biopsy results. Please let us hear back next week. So proud of your mother-in-law using a horrible situation in her life (that satan would love to use to defeat and discourage her) and allowing God to shine through her circumstances. Many blessings as she continues this ministry to women with breast cancer. Thankful for the time we spent at the mountain at Deeper Still...face to face with God. Praying His presence and power will continue taking the women in your family deeper still.
Michelle Hicks
said...
Hey Miranda,
I've made a request with Living Proof MInistries (Beth's office) to see if they are going to post it on the LPM blog or if we can post it here. I've not heard back yet--hope to have info or post it next week (July 14-18 sometime). Thanks for checking back!
Chrissy Gazzo said...
Thank you Michelle! Thank you for continuing to think of me, carry me and to cry for me. I am 1 of the 8 mothers. My life has been forever changed since the birth and death of my precious Eva Janette but my life has been just as changed and blessed from attending the Deeper Still - Atlanta event and meeting the 7 other mothers face-to-face for the very first time. I cannot even begin to explain nor describe the emotion and healing wrapped into those 4 days we spent together. Like Beth said while praying for us...the devil will be so sorry he ever messed with us. And although satan continues to try to steel, kill and destroy everything around me; I will not let him bring me down from where I am and where I have been since those last few days of June 2008. Since Atlanta I have returned back to my job after being on a medical leave for 6 months due to the pregnancy, delivery, loss and grief...only to find that my position had been eliminated. I can only think that this low blow was an act of satan himself but I know that God is way bigger and He has such great plans for me and my family. I am forever grateful for my baby girl Eva, who brought me to know the 7 other mothers, who brought me to Atlanta for my very first conference, where I met the amazing Beth Moore (and you too), who allowed me the opportunity to lay the burdens of my heavy heart on the arena floor to return to Pittsburgh cleansed, refreshed and burden free. I am ever so thankful for the Word and the Truth that I took in while hearing, Priscilla, Kay and Beth speak. Now, more than ever, I am looking up more towards Him w/ everything I have in me. Thank you for all that you have done and all that you continue to do to minister to those like me. Thank you.
Kristy Bolte said...
Thank you Michelle for thinking of us and for praying. This event meant more to the eight of us than you could imagine. It was great just to hug you and pray with you.
Christi said...
Thank you so much for your prayers, Michelle. I wanted to let you know that my mom got a call from the doctor this afternoon (so much earlier than she expected) and they said the biopsy results were benign. Praise God and thank you again for your prayers. It is an amazing thing to be a part of the body of Christ!
Blessings,
Christi
Michelle said...
I read about the confernce at several of "the mom's blogs" and was touched, sounds like a wonderful confernce that was truly God centered. I have gotten to know "the moms" thru the blog world and each of them touches my heart and helps me in my walk with Christ...so happy you remembered them and their babies....those little ones have had a huge impact in this world that's for sure
Miranda Brown said...
Thanks Michelle for checking on Beth's closing prayer!! I really appreciate it!
Seems like you've had a wonderful blessing in your spiritual journery through the many people you've met in the last month. How awesome is He?!?!?! So precious how God has laid His hand upon the hearts of each of those Mama's through friendships that are fixed upon Him. Awesome, Awesome!!
Thanks again!! Blessings!
Miranda
Miranda Brown said...
Hi Michelle!
I was wondering....by any chance did y'all get a copy of Beth's closing prayer Saturday night at Deeper Still in Atlanta? She read it, so there must be a copy somewhere.Ha! My girlfriends and I were just so blessed by it, and a friend of mine would really like to have it for herself. If you want to e-mail me the info... that would be wonderful too!! If not, and you want to post it.. if you're able to get it...that would be a blessing to other's just as much! Thanks so much!!! Blessings babe!
Miranda
Posted by Miranda Brown | Jul 11, 2008 at 12:10 AM