October 2007 Archives

The "Remaining Factor" in Marriage

Wednesday, October 10, 2007, 7:14 PM
I was reading recently in John 15 where Jesus tells us to "remain" in Him. At first glance that sounds like He is asking us to get our relationship with Him right and then freeze - in perfect equilibrium. However, what I see Him saying is "keep Me in the picture of your life and where it is going. Stay connected to Me. I made you and this whole world. Whatever I - or life - throw at you, it's gonna be better if you are close to me." Lots of applications here of course. Try this one. A walk with the Lord has to be dynamic and alive. Your relationship with Christ is like riding a bike. If you...

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How to Do "The Trust Thing"

Monday, October 22, 2007, 9:17 AM
I've been doing marriage counseling for 95 years. Okay, quite awhile. One of my most profound observations is the immense value of trust in the marital relationship. It's absolutely vital! I am convinced that - other than the Lord - trust is the most important factor in a marriage. Think about it. If a wife cannot believe her husband, even an "I love you" is in question. He comes home 45 minutes late from work due to an actual traffic jam and she immediately suspects an affair. This couple hasn't gotten to first base in a healthy marriage. Trust is essential or your marriage can only go so far. And however far that is, it is woefully short of where...

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