Can you hear me now? Principle 3

As I sit and watch the Thursday night football game, I find myself wondering why the announcers think they have to do so much talking? I know - it's their job - but do they really get paid by the word? I mean, so often it seems they are talking just to hear themselves talk. As married couples, we have to make sure we are not guilty of talking just to hear ourselves talk. Conversation is such an important part of a relationship, but if we are not careful, too much talking can actually hurt communication.
So, the third principle in being heard by your spouse is to Say it Briefly! The writer of Proverbs says it this way. In the 10th chapter and the 19th verse, Solomon says, "When there are many words, transgression is unavoidable, but he who restrains his lips is wise." Quiet confidence is attractive. People who talk too much give the impression they are trying to convince themselves of what they are saying as well as convince the ones that they are talking to. Proverbs 17:27 says, 'Someone who is sure of himself doesn't talk all the time.' Prove to be wise and sure of yourself and say it briefly if you want others to listen. Communication is important, but empty, excessive words actually hurt communication.
Next time..... Principle #4 - Say it Thoughtfully
Blessings to you.....
Gary and Kristin