Imagine a man and woman getting married, say, in the 1920's. Let's say they were both virgins when they married. On their wedding night they had sex. Afterwards the new husband thinks to himself, "That wasn't quite what I thought it would be. But she didn't say anything. I guess it's good for her." At the same time, she is thinking, "That was nothing that I thought it would be. It would probably be better - and I think I'd like it better if we did this or that. But I guess that's the way he likes it so I guess it's okay." There's a lot of "guess work" going on, isn't there? Now, fast forward with me to this...
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