Table for two
Sophie - September 8, 2010
Do you see the video with Pam and Paige that's over to your right?
Well, even though I like to think that I keep up pretty well with what's going on at LifeWay Women, I learned something new when I watched that video. Oh yes I did.
About a year ago a friend of mine who's a good bit younger than I am asked me if I would meet with her once a week. You know, just to talk through some stuff and pray together. I was a little surprised by her request, but since I felt like it was something the Lord wanted me to do, I agreed.
And do you know what? I have absolutely loved our time together over the last year. I think we're going to be in each other's lives for a long time, and I am so grateful for that. But as the older person in our friendship, I've sometimes felt like I didn't exactly know the best way to lead us. Should our time be more structured? Should I bring some sort of lesson? It's a tricky balance balance to find the place between making the most of your time and lecturing from atop a tower of books, you know?
All that to say: when I watched Pam and Paige's video, I was so happy to see a resource called Table For Two. It's designed for one-on-one discipleship, and I am tickled - TICKLED - to know about it because I think it'll give my friend and me a framework for our time together each week. I have a feeling that it's going to be exactly what I didn't know I needed.
If that makes sense. Which it probably doesn't. So feel free to just smile and nod with a puzzled look on your face.
So what about y'all? Any favorite resources or words-o-wisdom for mentoring younger women? We'd love to hear (or read, as it were) your thoughts!
Melanie
Melanie
Sophie
Sophie
Paige
Paige
Kris
Kris
Comments (3)
Sophie! You are not alone. I am a Girl’s Director and of course I follow the Girl’s Ministry blog, but when that book first came out and I went and bought it the day of. I mean, hello, who needs help at mentoring? I do! I hope it is helpful to you. I’ve not read the whole thing, but from what I can tell, it’s super helpful and structured.
Posted on September 8, 2010 1:11 PM
Have just attended your frazzled female night in Greenwood, SC. My problem is not from being frazzled but entering a time in my life when i’m NOT frazzled. Having an hard time adjusting to having 2 boys that are in there early 20’s!
Posted on September 9, 2010 8:11 PM
I had been asked to meet with a younger lady whom I’ve know since we were children. I felt the same thing. We tried starting a Bible study and it hasn’t worked. This Summer we just decide to let our kids…all different ages join us for lunch and a swim. It became a time for my hubby and I to realize we could make this a family event of mentoring. I am excited about this resource it will help be a guide to my friend and I. Thanks!
Posted on September 11, 2010 6:11 PM