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If it weren’t for Jesus, I’d probably sleep later.

Let me explain. I have my time alone with God in the morning. It’s quiet in my apartment (my roommate isn’t up yet), my tea is hot, my breakfast is eaten, and it’s just us—God and me. I love that time of the morning. Those words on the onion-skin-thin pages are old, but they still turn out fresh meaning to me most mornings. But if Jesus had never come to earth and turned society’s ideals upside down, the Bible as we know it wouldn’t even be around, so I wouldn’t feel compelled to read the Word, to dig into His words every morning, to pray and be heard.

But after sleeping in, where would I get up and go? I’d definitely have a different job. I work for LifeWay. My whole line of work is completely pointless without Christ. If Christianity didn’t exist, then neither would the corporation I work for nor building in which I work. There’s no telling where I’d be working. It probably wouldn’t even matter much. I wouldn’t be concerned about making an impact for Christ. Let’s be honest here. I’d just be concerned about climbing the corporate ladder and making as much money as possible.

So at the end of the day, when I left whatever job I was working, maybe, just maybe, I’d have more free time. I wouldn’t be at church three days a week. I’d sleep in on Sundays, like several of my unbelieving friends. The Sabbath would just be another day of the week.

Whom would I hang out with in all that free time? Without the body of Christ, I wouldn’t have the opportunity to meet like-minded people or to mentor that group of high school girls. I wouldn’t have met most of my current friends—our paths simply would have never crossed outside of church.

I’m frightened at just how different my life would be. So much of what I do every day is filtered through my faith (how I dress, where I go, whom I date, what I read, watch, and listen to, etc.). And that’s just my life.

It baffles my mind to think about how the world would be affected if Christianity had never existed. Without the higher purpose in life of living as Jesus taught, our sense of love, justice, and mercy is skewed (or non-existent). So our society would look a lot different. The concept of social justice comes from Christ’s teachings: Jesus elevated the poor’s status (and women’s too!). Our concern for them comes from what He taught.

Yes, our lives and the world would be a lot different had Jesus Christ not come to earth so long ago. But I forget that. I’m from the South. I was raised in the Bible Belt. I definitely take my faith for granted, as it has (thankfully) been a part of me for as long as I can remember.

What aspect of your faith do you need to dust off and reexamine? (How coincidental that Michelle blogged on this theme earlier this week! I wrote this post months ago, but decided last week to post it today.) Have you let some part of your relationship with Jesus or your view of God get stale? It’s easy to get caught up in all the busyness that is ours as we minister to our families, church families, friends, and communities and then forget why we do what we do. And it’s easy to start to think about how much more pleasant our lives might be if we did a little less for the Kingdom.

BUT, Christianity doesn’t make our lives or living in the world easy, but it does make our lives purposeful—in this life and the next. Think about your life. In what ways has Christianity made an impact in your life? How would your life be different if Jesus hadn’t come? Are you grateful for those differences?

Answer our poll (or if you’re feeling wordy, leave us a comment) and let us know how different your life would look if Jesus hadn’t decided to come down here in person 2,000 years ago.

If confession is good for the soul, then I hope to feel really great after writing this.
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My name is Emily, and I am a type-A, planner-toting, time-conscious, detail-oriented micromanager.

There, I said it. I’m pretty stingy with my time and often have a hard time finding room on my calendar for things that come up unexpectedly. When one of my free-spirit friends wants to go get coffee

“sometime,” I demand to know when “sometime” is. I set up an appointment with this person, write it in my planner, and then hold them to it. That’s just one example. There is no telling how many people I’ve hurt by refusing to spend time with them in the name of maintaining my schedule.


My rigidity is not my favorite part of myself.

Recently, I threw it out the window.

It was surprisingly easy. A friend needed me. That was all it took. My best friend’s fiancé called to tell me that he was putting my best friend on a plane to Nashville from Denver so she could be with her dad, who was having emergency surgery. He wanted to know if I could pick her up at the airport and let her stay with me that night. He said she was too emotional to call me herself and too exhausted to drive the rest of the way to her hometown that night.

I didn’t even have to think about it. Of course I would take care of her once she arrived in Nashville. Moments earlier, I’d been planning out my one night of downtime for the week. But before I knew what I was doing, I was offering to take a vacation day the next day and drive her home (4.5 hours away). That ended up not being necessary (thanks to a very nice sales associate at Hertz who I’m pretty sure pulled some strings to get my friend a car), but I was completely willing to do it.

Looking back, I’m a little shocked that I didn’t freeze up at the thought of doing something that wasn’t on my planner. But the thought of being protective of my time didn’t even cross my mind at the time because I knew what was important. I’m sure you’ve experienced a similar situation.

That event put a lot of things into perspective for me. I learned several key lessons:
• Number one, when people you love need you, you will do whatever it takes to meet that need. (Which explains why we go to the lengths we do sometimes.)
• Number two, a lot of the things I think are important aren’t. (Suddenly, the TV shows and manicure I’d scheduled for that night really didn’t matter.)
• Number three, I need to loosen up. I highly doubt that Jesus would have been chained to His calendar, had they had day planners back in His day. He knew what was expected of Him, yet was free to serve when the opportunity presented itself. It’s amazing the freedom that comes when you have your priorities straight.

(And I’m happy to report that my best friend’s dad is just fine, and that I was able to spend a lot more time with her during the ordeal than I have since she moved to Denver nearly two years ago.)

So if you see yourself in my story, I hope you’ll loosen your grip on your planner and stop missing out on the parts of life that happen without warning. Enjoy your time! It’s God’s gift to you. Now take this Independence Day to celebrate your independence from stupid things that keep you from really living!


 

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