We’re fortunate to have Beth Wiseman as a guest blogger today. She, along with Kathleen Fuller and Kelly Long, just released An Amish Wedding, that is now available at LifeWay Christian Stores. Beth is here to share a little bit about their new novella along with some interesting facts on the wedding customs of the Amish.
Welcome, Beth!

What a wonderful time Kathleen Fuller, Kelly Long, and I had writing our stories for An Amish Wedding, our latest novella collection set to release in December.
As we’ve done with past collections, we created three individual tales that tell one larger story. This collaboration was a bit trickier than the novellas we’ve done in the past because the stories don’t just overlap, the timeframe also flows simultaneously. I’m sure this was an editor’s nightmare, but we feel that the extra efforts put forth by authors and editors were worth it and that this is our best collection to date. Whether or not the reader prefers three short tales to read at his/her leisure or enjoys a complete novel, this book works well either way.
In this collection, Priscilla King has dreamed of marrying Chester Lapp since she was sixteen years old, and once he proposes on her nineteenth birthday, Priscilla puts her wedding plans into action. Some people might not realize that an Amish girl’s wedding is just as important as anyone else’s, right down to the tiniest of details. Priscilla wants her wedding to be perfect.

In the first story—A Perfect Secret by Kelly Long—we meet Priscilla’s best friend, Rose, whose own fiancé is hiding something from her, something she’ll do anything to uncover.
Kathleen Fuller’s contribution—A Perfect Match—focuses on Priscilla’s sister Naomi, who spends her life playing matchmaker for everyone, but she’s never found her own true love. But when Chester’s cousin Zeke show up for the wedding, Naomi finds her own life getting complicated.
In my story—A Perfect Plan—preparations are underway for the big wedding, but everything is going wrong. Priscilla’s young sister accidentally cuts up her wedding dress to use as doll clothes, there are problems with the house that Chester is building for his new bride, and Priscilla seems to have an incurable case of the hiccups. Priscilla and Chester begin to wonder if God is sending them a message to call off the wedding.
While there are some similarities between Amish weddings and other religions, there are some distinct differences. There isn’t a long, flowing white gown for the bride, but instead a specially made new dress that isn’t much different than the traditional clothes an Amish girl normally wears. Flowers aren’t a part of the ceremony, nor is a wedding cake. But I do think that what they do in lieu of a wedding cake is pretty neat. The bride and groom are presented with various desserts from their friends and family, often with a personal message inscribed on the baked item (which is sometimes an inside joke between the giver and the bride and groom). Another example of a wedding gift would be a container of M&Ms because the bride happens to love M&Ms, or maybe a batch of oatmeal raisin cookies because they are the groom’s favorite. So the bride and groom have lots of desserts as opposed to our traditional bride and groom’s cakes.

Amish weddings last three hours, and it’s an all day affair with members of the community showing up at 4 a.m. to help ready the home of the bride for the wedding. There are two meals during the day, and things don’t usually wrap up until around 9 p.m. You can expect to see anywhere between 200 and 400 guests in attendance. A prerequisite for marriage is that both the bride and groom must have already been baptized into the faith.
November and December are the most popular months for weddings, following the fall harvest, and most ceremonies take place on a Tuesday or Thursday. The Amish folks wouldn’t have a wedding on Saturday because that would put clean-up day on Sunday, and they don’t do any kind of work on a Sunday. The bride and groom spend their first night as a married couple at the bride’s house, and they are expected to help with cleanup the next day. An Amish friend told me that the new husband helps with the laundry—cleaning the linens, etc.—and that it’s the only time you’ll ever see an Amish man doing this chore.

There are lots of other Amish traditions, wedding and otherwise, included in the novellas. Kathleen, Kelly, and I all have Amish friends and contacts. Kelly is even fortunate enough to live in an area of Pennsylvania where she runs into Amish folks daily. Between the three of us, we’ve done extensive research about the Plain People, and together we’ve published over two dozen books about this endearing group of people. However, it’s important to mention what an Amish friend once told me. She said, “You can never get your books perfect because you don’t live among us on a day-to-day basis, but we all appreciate the way you do your very best to portray us in an accurate manner.” So, with God’s help and guidance, along with our Amish friends…that’s what we’ve tried to do in this novella collection—give the reader an inside look at Amish life in Lancaster County, Pennsylvania through the eyes of three different authors.
I believe that this anthology will lend a since of familiarity for the reader that bypasses our other collections. We’ve taken three women, all possible brides, and thrown as many things as we could at them. In the end, the characters—and readers—come to realize that no amount of plotting or planning will make a difference when God is in charge. Things happen on His timeframe.
This is a great book for the holidays, but can certainly be enjoyed all year long. And, as we’ve done with prior collections, there are Amish recipes and reading group guides for each story. We can’t wait to see what readers think about An Amish Wedding!
Thanks!
Beth
www.bethwiseman.com